<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245199237564408947</id><updated>2011-12-14T18:36:47.400-08:00</updated><title type='text'>WHO IS THE COMPETITION REALLY</title><subtitle type='html'>In a team where the 'long spoons' model of partnership exists:</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://rasintroublenow.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2245199237564408947/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://rasintroublenow.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>ImALLuNEED Inc.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03275552321295575931</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/__H-igivLttc/SUUuMt9LVXI/AAAAAAAAAHI/n6TtOtSVtkg/S220/100_1442.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>1</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245199237564408947.post-5062386538001434133</id><published>2008-12-01T08:50:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-01-08T12:34:03.201-08:00</updated><title type='text'>WHO IS THE COMPITITION REALLY</title><content type='html'>&lt;o:smarttagtype namespaceuri="urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" name="place"&gt;&lt;/o:smarttagtype&gt;&lt;!--[if gte mso 9]&gt;&lt;xml&gt;  &lt;w:worddocument&gt;   &lt;w:view&gt;Normal&lt;/w:View&gt;   &lt;w:zoom&gt;0&lt;/w:Zoom&gt;   &lt;w:compatibility&gt;    &lt;w:breakwrappedtables/&gt;    &lt;w:snaptogridincell/&gt;    &lt;w:wraptextwithpunct/&gt;    &lt;w:useasianbreakrules/&gt;   &lt;/w:Compatibility&gt;   &lt;w:browserlevel&gt;MicrosoftInternetExplorer4&lt;/w:BrowserLevel&gt;  &lt;/w:WordDocument&gt; &lt;/xml&gt;&lt;![endif]--&gt;&lt;!--[if !mso]&gt;&lt;object classid="clsid:38481807-CA0E-42D2-BF39-B33AF135CC4D" id="ieooui"&gt;&lt;/object&gt; &lt;style&gt; st1\:*{behavior:url(#ieooui) } &lt;/style&gt; &lt;![endif]--&gt;&lt;style&gt; &lt;!--  /* Font Definitions */  @font-face  {font-family:Verdana;  panose-1:2 11 6 4 3 5 4 4 2 4;  mso-font-charset:0;  mso-generic-font-family:swiss;  mso-font-pitch:variable;  mso-font-signature:536871559 0 0 0 415 0;}  /* Style Definitions */  p.MsoNormal, li.MsoNormal, div.MsoNormal  {mso-style-parent:"";  margin:0in;  margin-bottom:.0001pt;  mso-pagination:widow-orphan;  font-size:12.0pt;  font-family:"Times New Roman";  mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman";} @page Section1  {size:8.5in 11.0in;  margin:1.0in 1.25in 1.0in 1.25in;  mso-header-margin:.5in;  mso-footer-margin:.5in;  mso-paper-source:0;} div.Section1  {page:Section1;} --&gt; &lt;/style&gt;&lt;!--[if gte mso 10]&gt; &lt;style&gt;  /* Style Definitions */  table.MsoNormalTable  {mso-style-name:"Table Normal";  mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0;  mso-tstyle-colband-size:0;  mso-style-noshow:yes;  mso-style-parent:"";  mso-padding-alt:0in 5.4pt 0in 5.4pt;  mso-para-margin:0in;  mso-para-margin-bottom:.0001pt;  mso-pagination:widow-orphan;  font-size:10.0pt;  font-family:"Times New Roman";} &lt;/style&gt; &lt;![endif]--&gt;  &lt;p style="color: rgb(204, 204, 204);" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;"&gt;I think with the ever changing economy that we need to take a step back reevaluate who your business competition is and take a new look at the market place and combine our resources and target the customers together.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.imalluneedmoney.com/"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 41px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/__H-igivLttc/STgzQ_EjaOI/AAAAAAAAAEU/QgPY6g0fORw/s320/Image1.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5276023330365991138" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 255, 153);"&gt;What do we Really Mean by 'Partnership'?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Perhaps you've heard the story: There was a man who wanted to see both hell and heaven. He goes first to a land where all the people have delicious food to eat. But they have spoons longer than their arms, so they go hungry and suffer horribly. Then he goes to another place where everyone has the same wonderful food and the same long spoons. But here, they use the spoons to feed each other! This is the nature of hell and heaven, and the hair's breadth that divides them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;We use this parable, which exists in many cultures, to demonstrate the difference between what people normally call 'partnership' and the partnership which could possibly exist in a team or an organization of people working together. How would it be if you and everyone else in your team came to work committed to ensuring each other's success?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="color: rgb(204, 204, 204);" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="color: rgb(204, 204, 204);" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://imalluneed.ulovemoney.hop.clickbank.net/"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 42px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/__H-igivLttc/STgtxN8ldLI/AAAAAAAAAD8/fI29oJwm2Cw/s320/banner.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5276017287045149874" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 255, 153);font-size:130%;" &gt;What Kinds of '&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;st1:place style="color: rgb(153, 255, 153);"&gt;Normal&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 255, 153);font-size:130%;" &gt;' Organizational B&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 255, 153);font-size:130%;" &gt;ehavior Would You No Longer&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 255, 153);font-size:130%;" &gt; See?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;- You would never fingerpoint (or be fingerpointed at!) over failure to deliver a promise&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- You could not be at ease with delivering results and getting recognition, when other members of your team had struggled to achieve their targets&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- You would never suffer from anxiety and overload, while other team members were happy, thriving and successful in their work&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;In a team where the 'long spoons' model of partnership exists:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- The whole team takes accountability for everyone's results - if one team member is struggling to produce results, the whole team feels it has failed&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;- The leader is a full member of the team, not set apart from other team members in any way, though he has a specific role to fulfill. And it is their job to have him succeed, just as it is his to have them succeed&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- The satisfaction, motivation and well being of other members of the team is just as much a part of your job as is achieving your targets&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 255, 153);font-size:130%;" &gt;Why Should You, as a Leader,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="color: rgb(204, 204, 204);" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 255, 153);font-size:130%;" &gt;Create Partnership?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You could argue that, in the presence of a powerful leader, partnership is unnecessary - you will get the job done with or without others' involvement. But in today's organizations, this is not sufficient. You might achieve the result, but at what cost? If you don't involve others, you leave them disempowered and unmotivated. You do&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;n't train them in how to produce results. Your organization is the poorer, and if you leave, your knowledge and skill leaves too.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Then too, many organizations these days are moving to a matrix structure, where it is increasingly difficult for any one person to get the job done without involving others. In fact it's often positively destructive to focus single-mindedly on your own targets when so many others' success depends on your cooperation and in&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;volvement.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Working in partnership maximizes the chances of success for you, and for everyone else in the organization. Leading the charge on a white charger is a very lonely position to be in, especially when you look round, and there's nobody behind you!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"&gt;- &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 255, 153);"&gt;Change your Mindset&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="color: rgb(204, 204, 204);" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="color: rgb(204, 204, 204);" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The foundation of the kind of partnership we are &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;talking about here is Trust. If you don't trust someone, you won't want to contribute to them, and you won't want them to contribute to you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The way most of us regard trust is that the other person needs to earn it. And if they do something that reduces our trust in them, they should do something to put it right. The problem with this is that the change in perception has happened in your mind. Very often 'they' don't even know there's a problem!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If as a leader you are committed to creating partnership around you, you need to make a fundamental shift in your own mindset around trust, and everyone around you is accountable for generating and maintaining it. In our model, you are accountable! Not for any moral or ethical reason, though some belief systems and religions would argue this, but because being accountable for generating trust and partnership with t&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;hose we need to work (or live) with, works!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In fact, if we are talking about your work team colleagues, your boss, your customers, your suppliers, you are paid to be accountable for generating this level of partnership, and not to do so is a breach of integrity.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="color: rgb(204, 204, 204);" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;{author unknown}&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="color: rgb(204, 204, 204);" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2245199237564408947-5062386538001434133?l=rasintroublenow.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://rasintroublenow.blogspot.com/feeds/5062386538001434133/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2245199237564408947&amp;postID=5062386538001434133' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2245199237564408947/posts/default/5062386538001434133'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2245199237564408947/posts/default/5062386538001434133'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://rasintroublenow.blogspot.com/2008/12/who-is-compitition-really.html' title='WHO IS THE COMPITITION REALLY'/><author><name>ImALLuNEED Inc.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03275552321295575931</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/__H-igivLttc/SUUuMt9LVXI/AAAAAAAAAHI/n6TtOtSVtkg/S220/100_1442.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/__H-igivLttc/STgzQ_EjaOI/AAAAAAAAAEU/QgPY6g0fORw/s72-c/Image1.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
